Like many of life’s pleasures, hooking up with a straight (or closeted) guy comes with a cost. What was on the “dumb” side (to use your word) was hooking up with a platonic roommate, as now you have to look at him not looking at you every day. You (presumably) introduced him to the joys of gay sex, and he clearly wanted to learn sometime. It’s not dumb to hook up with a self-identified straight guy it’s hot. The best immediate course of action here is to relax. Is it wise to bring this up with him, or should I just let it go? Again, I know I am dumb. The other roommates have asked me if I’ve noticed him acting strangely. He’s not hostile, but he won’t really look me in the eye either.
A month later, I now hear him having loud sex with women regularly, which I definitely never heard before.
I was totally fine with it, and he acted like he was too, but it’s clear he’s not. I am the only gay guy (seemingly!) in a shared house of five guys, and this was very much unplanned. I am the guy who did the stupid thing from a hundred overheated online stories: I slept with my straight roommate when we were both drunk.
